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about me

Why I do what I do

I struggled with my sexuality my whole life. Not knowing how to label myself or interpret my feelings. This drove me to a deep desire to be accepted, validated and seen. I have always been attracted to men and women which created internal conflict throughout my adolescent years all the way through to adulthood. I experimented with men but eventually fell in love with a woman and was in a 13-year relationship.

That experience taught me the fundamentals of a relationship

Empathy, patience, responsibility, sacrifice, compromise, communication, building trust, etc. The problem was, I never fully accepted myself even though she had accepted me and therefore, I felt like less of a “man.” I felt as though my identity was inflicting harm on her and I carried a guilt that slowly ate away at me.

I realized later in life (30s), the acceptance I was missing was from myself.

In that moment, I decided to dive headfirst into self-healing, self-developing, and self-acceptance no matter the outcome. That process led to me ending my 13-year relationship and getting to know myself all over again. I re-acquainted myself with the LGBTQ+ community, dated, hooked up, had a failed relationship with a man I truly adored and even imagined a future with, learned to set boundaries, coached hundreds of people on rebuilding self-confidence and helped many reconcile their relationships, but most importantly… I learned that loving myself was the key to success.

Learning to love yourself is an on-going process and one that will continue until the day you die.

So, why did I create this project?

It wasn’t out of a want; rather, a need. A need to dispel the misconceptions, preconceived notions, and limitations that come with same-sex relationships. There will always be challenges, opinions, obstacles, and fears that you will face. I wanted to create a community, a resource, and a haven for anyone that wants to not only build a long-lasting and successful relationship with a partner, but most importantly, with themselves.

I want to provide you with my knowledge, experience, and expertise in the field of relationship and wellness coaching to create a life that is truly your own!

A life free of insecurities, criticism, and fear. I want to dispel the misconception that queer individuals can’t have a healthy and successful relationship.

We can! You can!

Unfortunately, as a community, I feel we have adopted some beliefs that have contributed to high rates of failed relationships and have been normalized. If you…

Have ever felt that you will never find your soulmate
Have had failed relationship after failed relationship
Are unsure of who you are or what you want
Feel like you don’t fit in
Haven’t come out
Or just want to accept and explore yourself…

This website is for you.

Let’s work together to attain that life you’ve always wanted. I am confident that together, you and I, can achieve your goals. Sometimes, having someone to support us on a difficult journey makes all the difference in the world.

To be seen, heard, validated, and understood.

That future is just a click away.

So, welcome to the beginning of something new. Something exciting. Something fulfilling. Something that is YOURS!